Feeling lonely can be like having a kind of
hollowness inside your heart which makes you feel down.
You might try to hide it, avoid it, or be
around others to push it away.
But being yourself is different.
It means finding happiness in your own
presence, enjoying your own company.
Maybe
you've been wondering why you've been feeling so alone recently.
It could be that you had disagreements with
close friends or you've lost touch with your family.
It's not that you dislike them now, but you don't really feel like being around anyone.
Remember, it's alright not to have people
around all the time.
Especially when facing a challenge or embarking on a journey, spending time alone is valuable.
It's
a chance to reflect and understand yourself better.
It's
easy to underestimate the significance of being alone.
Many fear it and try to always be with others
or distracted.
But being on your own can be a powerful and
transformative experience.
Now, how to go about it?
When you're alone, give this meditation a try.
Begin with a few deep breaths to relax.
Then breathe naturally, paying attention to
how your breath enters and leaves your body.
Feel
the rise and fall of your belly or the air moving through your nose.
Thoughts and distractions might pop up.
Don't
worry about them.
Just
acknowledge and gently return your focus to your breath.
Stay present in the moment, observing each
breath without trying to change it.
It's normal for your mind to wander.
When thoughts come up, let them go and return
to your breath.
If you
get frustrated, don't stress.
It's part of the process.
Think
of your thoughts as clouds drifting by in the sky—watch them without getting
attached.
Start with short sessions, like 5 to 10
minutes, and increase the time as you get comfortable.
If
it helps, set a timer to stay on track.
When you're done, take a few deep breaths and
slowly open your eyes.
Notice how you feel after
the practice.
Why
do this meditation?
It's simple.
Meditation
can change negative feelings into positive ones.
It can
turn sadness into happiness.
When
you discover the joy of being with yourself and enjoying solitude, you can get
excited about your journey.
Each moment becomes more remarkable and surprising, and your happiness grows stronger.
You might think you've reached your limits,
but there's always more to uncover.
As you connect with your true self, your
interactions with others change.
You become more loving,
caring, peaceful, and kind.
Negative things like always wanting more,
getting angry, feeling jealous, or being overly possessive start to matter
less.
It's like flowers blooming, a cheerful song,
and a joyful dance in your life.
Delving deep into yourself brings valuable
insights.
Knowing yourself is like knowing everything.
The core of you is called the Supreme Self.
It's different from your ego-driven side.
Your ego fades, but you remain—just in a new
way.
Without
ego.
That's what the Supreme Self
means—experiencing your true self fully.
Many of the beliefs and thoughts you have
aren't really yours.
Society, friends, and family shape your
thinking.
Being alone helps you see this and question why
you think as you do.
You're
not meant to blindly follow others.
You
have the potential to be a leader.
Sadly, your upbringing might have held you
back from realizing this.
Being alone lets you explore your inner self.
It’s crucial for personal growth.
When you're on your own, you have to tackle
problems and find solutions yourself.
It can be tough, involving dealing with past
traumas and changing your mindset.
But
the universe has given you this opportunity to shape the life you desire by
making you be alone.
Remember, change is needed to become the
person you aspire to be.
For a fresh start, you need a new environment,
new beliefs, new ways of thinking, and new perspectives.
These changes might feel uncomfortable, but
they're happening for your good, bringing you closer to your desired future.
Being
alone during this time can also help you take back your spiritual energy.
Sometimes, we unknowingly give our energy away
to others, to toxic people, who, can drain us, leaving us empty and unworthy.
Being
alone gives us the chance to reclaim our energy and break free from unhealthy
ties with people who might have taken advantage, even friends or family.
Many
spiritual individuals grow up thinking they must give their energy away to be
accepted.
This
can lead to people-pleasing and being overly empathetic.
However, once we reclaim and manage our
energy, we become incredibly powerful.
Throughout
history, seekers have sought solitude to face themselves. It's easier to do
this alone, as relationships can complicate things when their issues are
present.
Your true nature is one of solitude, but the habit of being in a crowd is strong, and you might not even notice it.
Fear of being alone arises from not knowing
who you are.
If everyone were to leave, the opinions and
perceptions of others that shape your identity would remain.
Even when you're physically alone, you can
discover a profound connection that transforms your life.
Through this process, you'll connect with your
true self and realize that you don't need anyone else to feel complete.
The
emotions and feelings you once sought from others are already within you.
You are loved, and validation from others
isn't necessary.
Your
happiness and contentment will come from within.
Standing alone, you'll uncover the incredible
power to make your desires reality.
This
knowledge emerges during the darkest times of solitude. Instead of questioning why you're going
through this alone, embrace the chance to create the life you desire.
Pain
and solitude are blessings that mould you into a stronger, more conscious
person.
Don't give up on yourself. Everything is
falling into place, and you will be alright.
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